Sunday, November 25, 2007

What is love?


I am a traditionalist when it comes to love. I would work hard to build a solid, intimate and deep bonding with the man I love. Sex no doubt adds pleasure and zest to a relationship play only a small role in my definition of love. To me, looks will fade, passion will subside and lust will wane over time. Therefore to establish a true, solid and intimate relationship between 2, you need the following ingredients: -
- trust
- loyalty
- integrity
- inter-dependent
- considerate
- courage
- friendship
- non-judgemental
- tolerant
- understanding
- patience
- conquering obstacles
- bonding
- unwavering support
- affection
- commitment

What do you think?

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Mix well together and add a drop of "Joie de Vivre" and you get an instant recipe for love ;)

j said...

Or shall I call it the cocktail of love?

Anonymous said...

All very good, but it strikes me as armchair philosophizing until you get yourself into a position where you have a more realistic prospect of a relationship with anyone at all. Hope that doesn't sound too harsh - dump this comment if you think so.

j said...

You are right about that, unless I can find someone and establish a relationship, all those things are just wishful thinking and empty talk. However, no one is perfect; so I do not expect every prospect I meet to display those traits because I too had troubles of putting them into action...those are just my ideals that's all...